Why can't things just change over night?

As I wrote earlier, I discovered (or rather realized) people are drawn to me, more so for social purposes rather than intimate ones. Well, after this epiphany I figured my behavior would change (for the better) towards the men I am surrounded by on the daily. Yeah, not so much.

What's happening is around most guys I'll behave normally, but now I've actually targeted a selected few to have super naughty fantasies about. Unfortunately for me, I only have these porno dreams while I'm in their presence. I need help!